Friday night I went to a taco truck launch party in Soma (“South of Market Street,” San Francisco). Tickets were free, but limited, so thankfully I saw the offer on Twitter and acted swiftly. I had been looking forward to this event all week, because after all I am a huge food truck aficionado. I brought Monica, the Wellesley intern working for another County department, as my +1 (as in my guest, not the Google+ version of Facebook’s “Like”). We got there fashionably late, which was a huge mistake and got us stuck in a long line. When we got into the event it was worth it, though. It was held inside a big empty warehouse that was prettied up for parties like this, and the taco truck was parked prominently at one end and bars lined the other walls. The truck is sponsored by a tequila company, so there were plenty of complimentary tequila trucks.
The taco line was really long, so we had the brilliant idea to get drinks before getting into line to make the wait more tolerable. By the time we got to the front of the taco line, not only had we finished our tequila sunrise and margarita, but the tacos had run out!!! We were so sad, but consoled with some really delicious rice and beans. I’m still disappointed I didn’t get my taco, though! (However, Alisa and I had had carnitas tacos and fish tacos at lunch at a farmers’ market in downtown Oakland that were really good, so I guess it wasn’t the end of the world.)
Although the tacos ran out, the cupcakes with tequila-infused flavored frosting and tequila drinks did not, so the night wasn’t a total bust. Monica and I also took advantage of the photo booth.
Friday was fun, but Saturday was definitely the highlight of the weekend. I had a restful morning – did some laundry and other household activities – and then headed back into the city. I met Steven, a Googler who graduated from Brown that I met at a Pixar intern’s birthday party earlier this summer, to talk about what it’s like to recruit for and then subsequently work for Google. We met at Philz, a (VERY) hipster coffee joint in the Mission. (I was dressed for dinner at a yuppie restaurant, so I looked pretty out of place…)
It was really great to talk to him and I am really glad that I’ve been able to explore a variety of postgrad options this summer, through my internship and through talking to people and reading about things. I’m planning on casting a wide net and keeping my options open. We’ll see what happens.
After coffee, I met Evan, one of my friends from Harvard (who is coincidentally also a Google intern) that I’ve taken Chinese with for the past three years. We went to Dolores Park, which is also in the Mission. There were so many people there. It was like a huge party! One section of the park was hosting what looked like an outdoor rave (the people HAD to be on some kind of drugs), complete with huge speakers blasting trippy music and people dancing like maniacs. It was quite a sight to behold.
We didn’t stay at the park for long, as we both had to meet our respective friends for dinner. I headed to back to Soma again, this time to meet up with a few rising juniors I’m friends with from hapa. (One was Treasurer when I was President, and the other was my Little Sib.) We had dinner at Triptych, a really interesting restaurant that has a rotating gallery of local artists’ paintings decorating their walls. The ambiance was really nice and the food was good. We shared some sweet potato fries with chipotle sauce, and then I had risotto with scallops and a balsamic reduction. It was all so delicious, so we once again lamented our return to HUDS in the fall.
Once we finished our long and leisurely dinner, I met Liza and her high school friend at Bourbon and Branch for an après dinner drink. Bourbon and Branch is a speakeasy that Polly and Alex recommended. The door was totally unmarked on the outside – no windows, no name sign on the building. We were meeting in “the Library,” so the password to get in was books. It was dimly lit and old-looking books lined the walls. There were hidden doors on one wall that led to another section (which required reservations and another password, neither of which we had).
On a more serious note, the only distressing parts of the day was walking from the BART station to Bourbon and Branch, and then back again. Going to the bar, I felt pretty scared. I was by myself, and although it was only a few short blocks, there were lots of unsavory people on the sidewalk. A couple of boisterous men were walking down the sidewalk and as they passed me I felt uncomfortable when they walked aggressively close to me. Another man tried to talk to me, others just seemed to be looking me over. Needless to say, I was very relieved to have the other girls to walk back from the bar with when we decided to call it a night.
I’m not sure if it’s an East Coast/West Coast thing, or if I just haven’t spent much time in a city before, but I have never received so much unwanted male attention before this summer (or maybe I got a lot cuter this summer? Just kidding). I used to think that women who complained about getting catcalled/etc. were blowing things out of proportion, but now I realize that it’s all about intimidation, and it is wrong for these men to think that they have the right to act so aggressively towards another stranger. Some of these sketchy people can make the most innocuous things (i.e. “You have a good night”; “Hi”; “I like your dress”) sound really scary. After stewing about this on my BART ride home, I was so angry that if anyone had confronted me on my way back to my apartment instead of feeling anxious walking home, I felt like I would have not hesitated to just punch them as hard as I could. It is just so incredibly wrong that such people can exert power over others in this way and make them feel so uncomfortable. I guess that’s just the nature of sexist and gendered power these days – it’s so insidious that we often just brush it off and say that complainers are making mountains out of molehills.
Luckily, though, Sunday morning Lululemon hosted yoga in the park near my apartment, so I could channel some good Chi and get back my Zen SF feeling.
Here’s to one more great week!